Constructing your Dream into Reality

Having a themed wedding isn’t always the first thing that comes to mind as you begin the planning process for your big day. Or perhaps it is, but you just don’t know how to execute it in a tasteful manner. If you read our blog on Tuesday, you’ll remember how many great ideas there are for tasteful themed ideas. Today we’ll look at how to execute your idea in a flawless manner.

Less is more. This rule holds true for most events, really. When designing a space, a few large pieces and a few more smaller pieces usually balance out the room. It is the same for themed weddings. Choose 3-4 items that you are basing the look of the wedding off of and go from there. If you chose a nautical theme, don’t include every facet of a boat into the décor. Choose a few accessories that can be incorporated in a classy fashion and go from there.

Photo by Sara Parsons Photography

Photo by Sara Parsons Photography

Don’t abandon a committed color scheme. Just because you’ve chosen a specific theme does not mean you should disregard color altogether. Stick with the main palette you’ve chosen to keep every detail tied together. You don’t want a plethora of colors leaving the canvas that is your special day to be disoriented and over saturated, taking away from the important elements you’d like to highlight.

Photo by Ben B Photography

Photo by Ben B Photography

Ask yourself why. Sometimes you end up adding details to your own attire, bridal party attire, reception décor, ceremony, etc. that you are just adding because you feel they “go along with the theme.” When you start to get overwhelmed with too many ideas, start asking yourself why you wish you add whatever it is you’re adding. What will be the benefit? If you take the time to decipher the meaning of each detail, you can save a lot of wasted effort and money on fruitless particulars.

Aim for timeless over trendy. When you’re unsure about a decision, go with something that will be gorgeous through the years instead of gorgeous right now. It helps to take a look at a wedding magazine dating roughly 10 years prior to your wedding date. The trendier fashion during that time period usually looks fairly unappealing, while the more beautiful details end up catching your eye. You want your day to be memorable and timeless, so when making fashion or décor choices, consider what has been proved gorgeous time and time again instead of what’s hot right now. This is especially important when dealing with a theme because you want it to be accurately represented without being distasteful.

Photo by Clane Gessel

Photo by Clane Gessel

Photo by Clane Gessel Photography

Photo by Clane Gessel Photography

These general guidelines will help turn your themed wedding into one that will be remembered for all the right reasons. The main rule of thumb regarding said themes; you don’t have to go above and beyond for your day to be exceptionally stunning. Here’s to a classy themed special day to you and yours!

An unlikely Theme

Are you passionate about an idea that you want to center your whole wedding around? Themed weddings are often tricky to decide upon, mostly because it’s hard to find a way to create a tasteful one to begin with. If you’ve kicked around a couple ideas and can’t pin one down, here are a few broad avenues you can consider on the journey to making your day your own. Hopefully one of them encompasses the overall atmosphere you’re trying to bring to life!

Nautical. If you have a love of the ocean, or perhaps a favorite lake, it’s easy to dive into a nautical theme without going overboard. Simplicity is the key to this theme, and can turn an ordinary venue into an extraordinary space.

Photo by Sara Parsons Photography

Photo by Sara Parsons Photography

Black Tie. Are you a traditional guy or gal? Are you hoping to give your day that fairy tale feel by adding the most classic of elements? Go black tie and get in touch with your elegant side. Long gowns and tuxedoes aren’t utilized enough today!

Rustic. This is easiest and most tasteful way to represent your country roots. The smallest touches, like serving your drinks in mason jars and adding a few wildflowers here and there, can be the best way to give your wedding that rustic vibe.

Photo by Melissa Kilner Photography

Photo by Melissa Kilner Photography

Modern. Smooth, sleek and chic are the most prevalent modern décor guidelines. High fashion and edgy can lead to gorgeous bold color choices and an individualistic overall scheme.

Vintage. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with bringing a little old fashioned love back into the picture. You can take this as you please; Gatsby, Marilyn or Monet inspired ideas go a long way in making a beautiful day that much more memorable. Or simply employ pieces of art or furnishings from the desired era you’re hoping to bring to life.

Photo by Clane Gessel Photography

Photo by Clane Gessel Photography

Industrial. Where rich mahoganies meet charcoal steel—industrial themes are always a win and extremely popular as of late. Spice up this look by adding more natural greenery to the picture with potted plants or succulents.

Photo by Shane Macomber Photography

Photo by Shane Macomber Photography

We’re hoping these themes help to hone your overall goal of making your day uniquely you. Stay tuned for our Thursday blog when we help make your theme come to life!