Vendor Spotlight: By Captivate

Let’s face it – we couldn’t be who we are, without our fabulous vendors. Over the years we’ve met so many wonderful individuals in the wedding industry. We decided to reach out to some of our vendors from the past and present, and ask them what fuels their business and what they're all about! So, sit down and relax with us as we sit down with our vendors to discuss what is at the heart of their business. We are so excited about this week’s vendor:

BY CAPTIVATE

Our mission is to serve our couples beyond the “I do” by capturing in-the-moment memories that last a lifetime. Through story-driven filmmaking, we’ll make documenting your day easy, carefree, and couple-focused so every detail, every moment, and every emotion can be re-lived for years to come.




 We’re dying to know – what made you dive into the world of weddings?
As life partners and parents, we know the feeling of “life passing you by” all too well. When we held our firstborn in our arms for the first time, we knew we couldn’t let one moment go by undocumented. From then on, we wanted to capture every single milestone, all while making sure we weren't sacrificing mindfulness and living in the present moment. That's exactly how we discovered our passion for filmmaking. Our heartbeat is to serve couples through filmmaking to help them remember and cherish the moments that matter the most forever, while allowing them to soak up every minute of their wedding day with ease.

Tell us about how you started your business.
A little over 10 years ago, we launched our videography venture. We've always been drawn to the camera, capturing the genuine moments that make life special. Throughout the past decade, we have filmed just about everything – from real estate and small business commercials to family photos. And now, we're excited to bring that touch to weddings!

What's the secret sauce behind bringing that touch of elegance to your projects?
What sets us apart is our unique approach. Our aim is to ensure you relish every moment of your wedding day, surrounded by your favorite people, without it feeling like an extended photo session. We assist in creating a serene atmosphere, allowing you to be fully present in the moment, while we seamlessly capture every detail for you to cherish later on.

Any wild, funny, or heartwarming tales from your wedding adventures?
One of our favorite heartwarming moments was from a wedding in Bonney Lake. The bride had a four-year-old son, who was beyond excited for his mom to get married, and to welcome his new dad into the family. The bride planned a special First look with her son. As soon as he saw her, he squealed with joy and exclaimed “Mommy you look so pretty!” We will never forget that moment, and the happy tears shared by all in the room!

Advice you want to give couples about the wedding planning process?
You’ve spent valuable time planning the perfect wedding day, but with every piece of planning advice you always seem to hear, “The day will fly by!” This day is a culmination of thoughtful decision-making, hours of planning, and your personal love story, and it should be documented as such. It’s not enough to capture stills. It’s time to document your day in a living way.

What trends do you hope to see or want to see in 2024?
We love seeing more and more private last dances. It’s usually the last moments of the night when the couple can share a special dance. It’s the perfect time to soak in the beautiful celebration and all the memories made from the day.

Spill the tea – what's the next big thing in weddings that has you buzzing with excitement?
We are so excited to see all of the new colors, trends, and vibes that are coming to the wedding world. It truly is an ever-evolving space, and we are so excited to see what comes next!

We love working with you, why do you love working with us?
We love working with Tiffany and Lori from Elegant Affairs. The work they do is truly so detail-oriented. No stone is left unturned in the planning process. They also come ready with three years of experience to navigate elegantly through any unforeseen circumstance on the day of.


Lori Losee is the owner of Elegant Affairs, a Tacoma Wedding Planner with over 18 years of experience. We create awe-inspiring experiences—Events filled with meaning and refined elegance. Behind the scenes, our experienced team collaborates on each stage of the process, executing your vision and a wedding, celebration, or corporate event that is unique to you.