How to recognize family members who can't attend your wedding?

Weddings happened to bring out a range of emotions from happiness, excitement, love, and anticipation but on that same note; weddings can bring out pain and sadness of a loved one not being present at your wedding. It can be hard to try to fathom them not being there. I find it important to make them a part of your special day. A part of your day that you can smile at and remember how blessed you are to have had them in life.

One way is leaving an open seat for them, placing a flower, pictures, a hat or flag.

 

This beautiful bride wrote a message to her loved ones in heaven and released the balloon into the sky for them

These special couples chose to release butterflies.

Some other ways to remember and honor our loved ones is simply incorporating things they loved, besides you of course.

Share a drink with the departed in the form of a single drink or a toast.  

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Many individuals may not want to focus too much in their memory, it could be just too soon or sensitive. There are still so many ways to add little touches.

Many couples might be afraid to incorporate a loved in fear of bringing down the mood or afraid of turning their wedding into a funeral atmosphere. With a little bit of creativity you can incorporate your loved one with smiles and celebration. These are only a few ideas that are out there, don’t limit yourself, ideas can come in many forms. Our Elegant Affairs team is standing by if you need help in making your ideas come to life. 

What to do with all those photos your guests take!

“A picture is worth a thousand words”

This week’s wedding etiquette lesson is all about who, what, where, and when to post those photos you took during your friend’s big day!

Who:

This is all about you, the guest. The self-proclaimed professional iPhone photographer who can be seen taking 50 pictures as the bride walks down the aisle. And of course a few selfies with your selfie stick while you’re waiting for things to get going!

What:

Take pictures of everyone and everything! The bride and groom want to see their wedding from your prospective! So don’t be embarrassed, take those selfies! And if there is a photo booth at the reception, put on those crazy glasses and wigs and join the fun in front of the camera!

Where:

Post your photos on social media! Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and whatever other outlets are popular nowadays. A lot of couples will make a hashtag (#) for their wedding so if there is one be sure to use it!  

When:  

This is the most important part of this entire lesson! Wait to post! Wait to post your amazing photos until the bride and groom have exchanged their vows! This is especially important for anyone in the wedding party. Don’t ruin the ‘first look’ by posting an Instagram of how great your best friend looks in her wedding dress before her groom gets the chance to see her.

Photos are a great keepsake and they really are worth a thousand words, but only if they are used wisely! Make sure your photos aren’t taking away from the experience or ruing any special moments throughout the day.